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PARENT COACHING SESSION

Get the connection back that you desire with your child!

Parenting is a difficult job and you might be at a place where you just don't know what to do.  You might feel distance and feel that your relationship with your child is suffering.  Perhaps you struggle with worry and guilt because your experience of parenting is not what you thought it would be.  As a parent coach who has worked with many families, I can help you!

I know how painful it can be to feel hopeless and like you’re not in control when your child acts out or boundaries need to be implemented.  I know how frustrating it can be when you feel like you need to yell and you are not listened to.  I understand the helpless feeling when you lose control of your own emotions and react to your child’s behavior.  I understand what it’s like to “not like” being a parent!  

I can recall a moment with my daughter where she was not following boundaries I’d set for her and electronics.  In addition, she was especially rude and disrespectful to me the entire day;  talking back, rolling her eyes and not completing things I had been asking her to do for days.  I had made concessions for her, as well as driven her and her friends around most of the day.  By the end of the day, I had had it!  She was rude to me for the last time and I unleashed my anger and frustration.  I needed to be heard and she needed to listen! I let her know all the reasons why her behavior was out of line and how things were going to change.  When I was finished, she calmly looked at me and said, “You need to get yourself together mom.”   

In that moment, as angry as I was, I knew she was right.  I needed to change the way I was doing this parenting thing altogether.  The work was with me!  If I wanted things to change with my daughter and in my house, I needed to get myself together.  So I did and I can show you how to do the same thing in your house.  

I have struggled myself as a parent and know firsthand how hard parenting really is.  The hardest job you will ever do!  I also know how liberating it is to feel clear and confident as a parent and know fully that my parenting style is what’s best for my child and my family.  

After changing things within myself and understanding my role as a parent better, things changed dramatically in my house.  My daughter started to listen to the requests asked of her.  She actually started to bring her phone to me when her time was up, WITHOUT ME ASKING HER TO!!!  She started sharing her life at school with me more and more, and our connection grew tremendously.  I can now say that I truly enjoy being a parent… her parent.  

As a Parent Coach, I’ve worked with families who struggle with bigger issues than not bringing electronics when asked.  I’ve worked with families who’s child is using drugs or alcohol, or children are sneaking out of the house at night.  I’ve seen parents struggle with children who threaten them or hit them and they feel at a complete loss.  The connection between these parents and their children is severely severed.  

I want to help you get the connection you desire back!  It is possible!  My program is designed to work with your unique situation to help you gain the confidence, connection, and peace you desire.